draw the line...

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Written on Thursday, April 03, 2008 by mummyvaio


ari nie terbaca kisah sufiah..budak genius yg masuk oxford masa dia 13 thn...n what become of her now...kesian sangat...aduh...sedih bila baca how she turns up...nauzubillah...bila baca kisah sufiah makin la risau tentang fareehah n kalau ader rezeki adek-adek fareehah...betapa besar n beratnya tanggungjawab yang di amanahkan oleh Allah kepada mummy n hubby...sangat-sangat berat...ya Allah semoga Engkau permudahkan segala urusan kami...

mummy masih mentah sangat2 dalam hal mendidik anak..yerla..anak kami baru umur berapa kan...tapi...banyak sangat yang perlu difikirkan...7 years from now my baby akan masuk sekolah...so what should i do to prepare her mentally n physically?...i want her to love to learn...to love discovering new things...n love the knowledge that Allah had laid so widely for us to explore...yet i don't want my good intentions to push her over her limits...where do i draw the line...right now i just go with her flow...read when she wants to read...eat when she wants to eat...play when she wants to play...sing n dance when she wants to...sumtimes use flashcards to entertain her...that is all...but since she is going to be one...i am aiming for a more structural schedule....i will still do as she wants...but i hope to slip in a new activity for her once a week...maybe some craft or art or discovery or science or music activity for her...walking in the park a few times a week for some exercise..( anyone care to join me for this activities..?) ...i am training myself to explain more things to her...not difficult things...just simple things in life...why do we have to brush our teeth...what is inside our meal today...simple things like that...n her ask her questions...why do you arrange the blocks like that...right now i am browsing books n websites that teach fun stuffs to do with ur babies n toddlers...have a book or two in mind...maybe gonna buy them..

for a new mummy like me...other people might think other wise..i always think that religion,love and knowledge is the most important...n hubby always remind me to do things the way Islam taught us...to love our children the islam taught us,to give them knowledge the way islam taught us...islam is a way of life..when we are confused n need guidance...islam is the answer...n to make rasulullah s.aw our role model in life...i pray to Allah to open our hearts to be nearer to His path...amin...n do pray for us too ehh..

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5 Comments

  1. bendul | April 4, 2008 at 2:03 AM

    such a nice post.. menjadi panduan untuk aku jugak.. pasal kengkadang tgk perangai anak seniri buleh jadi ilang sabo.. iskkk.. astaghfirullahalazim..

     
  2. mysara | April 4, 2008 at 5:23 AM

    every mother sure wish only the best for their child.. mai pon harap dapat buat yg terbaik utk rayyan... gambarou k.ain!

     
  3. mummyvaio | April 4, 2008 at 3:29 PM

    bendul : hiya senpai...i always don't know what to call u...so panggil senpai jer la...hahaha..biasela kdg2 hilang sabar kan ...tp tiap2 kali itu juga tarik nafas panjang..n look at the adorable face..can't help to smile back at them kan?

    tentoumushi : of course..da kara..isyyouni ganbarou ne!we can do it!

     
  4. :: !zyan :: | April 4, 2008 at 4:31 PM

    all d best kak ain!!
    I do learn lots from ur blog...ehhe as if dah nak ade anak je kan? padehal kawen pun tak lagi...allala

     
  5. Pocket | April 5, 2008 at 4:20 PM

    well actually i'd say that she just simply being sent to the war field too early.
    Without enough training,
    without enough weapon,
    without enough exp.

    so lets equip ourself since we're still in the field.
    equip them for they will go to theirs.

    tapi apa apahal pun... pocket nak satu dulu.. huhuuuu

     

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