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Written on Monday, July 28, 2008 by mummyvaio
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am permanently moving to --> http://bukubook.webs.com/mummyvaio.htm
i like their function better...thanks for visiting me here..do come by to my new 'home'
am thinking to move to freeweb...made a new blog...( again?)...which one you like better....just wanna combine everything in one...if possible!
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Semalam mummy n the hubby watched THE MIST..a movie adapted from Stephen King's novel..citer nya agak menariks jugak walaupon ada la part2 yg tak sesuai untuk tontonan anak2..or preggy ladies..aksi -aksi kimochi warui...ergghhh...well..the ending was quiet contoversial..!please do not read if you have not seen the movie...
the hero telah berjaya lari from that main scene with few people with his son...why do you have to make him kill all of them????grrr.....why..why...why...he had made it that far..nape tak ganbare je...at least ganbare dulu..kalau mati pon kene makan ngan monster itu..dah try the best...!geram...geram...
but then we realize that maybe stephen king memang saja make that controversial ending..why not?right?..if its a happy ending..people will see the movie/read that novel...just like any other movie/novel...with this ending he made such an impact....that people will response more...or maybe gonna read his other novel...to know about his other stories...humm...
far more important..we learned something from this movie...jangan berputus asa...even if when everything seems hopeless..there is always a way...n suicide is not an easy way...sumtimes the harder way will make you a better fighter!
yosh!aja-aja fighting!
p/s : ganbare cari keje mummy...!!
my baby has two personality..
1- when she is at home she is cheerful,talkative,manja,active,wanna do things by her own,express her emotion very well..though very dependant on me....
2- when she is out...for example...kenduri,party....where the crowd is pack...she becomes very clingy,quiet,n cried everytime someone she does not recognize approach her...
i was very worried...but i was careful not to label her as shy,or scared of people...instead when people ask,i usually tell them she need time to warm up to people...n i do not push her to accept new people if she does not want to..what a mum can do is observe her baby...i realized that when people ignore her first while chatting to me...fareehah will observe them very cautiously...as if to judge whether this person is a threat or not...when she thinks its okay,she wil be willingly talk,or share her things with them...this apply to adults...as when she is surrounded by other toddlers she was very interested looking at them...n rarely cried..
nowadays she is able to accept new people faster...and i am thankful for that..i once ask my health visitor about her reaction..n she tells me not to worry..as she said some baby has strong need of personal space..just like adults..i hope it won't be so bad when we first got home...this September..
p/s: we just got our first customer!..she pre-ordered two of our books eventhough she know we can only delivered them in november.yey!!
Tamat sudah wimbledon 2008 dengan juara baru..rafael nadal...hummph..mummy tak minat dia nie..tp oleh kerana dia bagi saingan yg amat sengit kat federer...congrats la ye...cian federer...isk...isk...sumer tak menjadi...truthfully game semalam is the most exciting tennis match i've ever seen...dramatik giler..siap ujan kena tangguh game dua kali...kitorang yg tengok tensen..haha...anyway,ganbatte to federer utk US open lak...silap-silap kalah jugak die nanti kat nadal...lepas ni sapa nak masuk tennis kene body build juga mcm nadal..supaya kuat n leh kalahkan nadal..hehe..
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Last weekend while walking home from grocies shopping,hubby asked me...what are my priorities when chose to walk to town,etc...
1- its a good day today..lets walk
2- its very economical
3- its good for my health
well my answer is...
it depends...when the sun is shining so brightly i could not resist to walk outside...since the weather here is so unpredictable...so everytime the sun shine oh so brightly...lets go out baby!...but when its not so good weather...not so bright but we still can walk outside...the priority becomes economical...i mean why waste 4 pounds to go n back from the town..when its not soo far away..?why..why...well...if everyone else wants to do that its their money anyway..so i really don't care...so as you may suspect..the health always comes last...hahaha...
everytime we go anywhere we always bump into malaysians in their cars..they always honk n wave at us..n we wave back..hehehe...everytime (which is not so frequent anyway..) we go to carboot sale people always ask us..if we have bought a car...or with whom do we come...n the answer are always..nope..we come by the bus...
maybe actually i like to walk around...humm...never thought of that..so if you choose to walk around like me...what are you reasons ehh?
This is a recipe that i learned whilst working as a waitress in Rasa Sayang restaurant,Fukui. It is a modified version of pisang goreng so it is more acceptable by japanese people..more presentable more likely. We called it banana harumaki...n it is very simple to make...may be served with tea...or as a dessert to accompany the main dish.
To make this simple dessert you will need banana,sugar,crunchy peanut butter ( but if not available the smooth ones will do ), n kulit popia...i forgot what it is called...hehe..
Just spread a spoon of peanut butter onto the popia skin and put the banana...you can split the banana into half or quarters...which ever you like...and sprinkle a pinch of sugar...fold the skin...put it into a plastic bag and freeze them in a freezer for a night at least..
when you want them,heat the oil..wait until the oil is hot..take out the bananas and fry them really quick..just until the skin is brownish...serve hot...but the bananas will be cold you will feel like eating ice cream goreng!
can be kept in the freezer for about 3 months,thus handy to have in the house for a quick serve if sumone comes over!
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lately banyak aktiviti di rumah saja...fareehah selsema plak tetiba...few days lepas her 13 months jab tu..selsema...teruk..ni dah ok sket..tau2 la bila baby tak sihat nih...very2 clingy n cranky...tido mlm pon dier tak selesa..asek terbangun n nangis aje...sehari dua ni dah ok dah...baru ceria sket nak main-main...sekarang main sungguh lasak...paling dia suka main susun kusyen..panjat sofa tolak kusyen ke bawah..tp sbb berat nanti die jerit2 suruh mama or abah tolong...dah susun2 tuh dier pon baring tergolek la atas kusyen tu...suka sangat susun-susun barang ni...susun buku..susun fridge manget...satu jer yg dia tak suka susun...baju!sekarang sebab dah pandai buka tutup drawer mummy simpan baju dia...abes semua dia keluarkan...adehhhh...yang kelakar tu bila orang suh tutup drawer dia tutup, n akan tepuk tangan dier...hehe...anakku comel...hihi..mama sayang fareehah!
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football cake
Originally uploaded by myflowerpot
A happy birthday for my dearest.
Hubby teringin cheese cake, so i made cheese cake with chocolate bits for him,n decorate it like a football...a football cake..for a football lover!
Gaji menteri vs seruan 'ubah gaya hidup rakyat' ( petikan dari harakahdaily )
Slip Pendapatan Bulanan bagi Menteri Penuh Malaysia termasuk Ketua-Ketua Menteri:
1. Gaji Pokok RM18,000
2. Elaun Keraian RM10,500.00
3. Elaun Perumahan RM10,800.00
4. Elaun Wakil Rakyat RM10,650.00
5. Elaun parking RM 5,700.00Jumlah pendapatan bulanan RM55,650.00 yang wajib diterima sama ada sakit atau tidak bekerja:-
Lain-lain kemudahan
1. Bercuti keluar negara sekali setahun terutama selepas persidangan Dewan Negara- semua perbelanjaan ditanggung oleh kerajaan termasuk tiket penerbangan, hotel, duit poket sebanyak RM50,000.00. Kalau tidak bercuti keluar negara seorang menteri boleh menuntut sebanyak RM50,000.00 tanpa resit.
2. Bil letrik percuma ditanggung oleh kerajaan Malaysia
3. Bil Air percuma ditanggung oleh kerajaan Malaysia
4. Bil telefon percuma ditanggung oleh kerajaan Malaysia
5. Peruntukan perkakasan dapor/perhiasan rumah dan lain-lain boleh dituntut setahun sekali sebanyak RM40,000.00
6. Sebuah kereta Mercedes S320, di lengkapi dengan telefon bimbit,satu pemandu,minyak percuma.Kalau guna khidmat pemandu kementerian, dapatlah duit percuma.
7. Semua pemberian derma seperti kepada perkahwinan, kematian,atau pemberian kepada badan kebajikan kebajikan boleh dituntut.
8. Boleh mengadakan rumah terbuka setiap hari raya, segala perbelanjaan ditanggung oleh kerajaan. Kebiasaan Menteri menuntut sebanyak RM400,000.00
9. Setiap menteri biasanya tuntutan mereka sebanyak RM45,000.00 semua elaun perbelanjaan tidak termasuk elaun-elaun dalam slip pendapatan bulanan.
Slip Pendapatan Bulanan Bagi Timbalan Menteri ialah:-
1. Gaji Pokok RM15,000
2. Elaun Keraian RM9,500.00
3. Elaun Perumahan RM9,800.00
4. Elaun Wakil Rakyat RM10,650.00
5. Elaun parking RM 5,700.00Jumlah pendapatan bulanan RM50,650.00 yang wajib terima samada sakit atau tidak hadir bertugas.
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saja-saja try post from flickr...menarik jugak...semalam gi carboot...beli baju fareehah sket2...byk baju dier dah singkat n tak muat...then singgah metro center to buy some omiyage...yatta!dpt jugak a few items yang menarik...kat metro centre fareehah berjalan sakan...baru confident nak berjalan kat luar umah...kitorang yang penat kejar dier...sekali tuh melulu jer dia jalan masuk cashier counter...huhu...
barclays premier league dah tamat...so layan tennis pulak la..ari nih 3 jam mummy mengadap tv itu...tgk semi-final men...bess sebab ader roger federer...hehe...anyways,setelah mummy tunggu sampai tensen-tensen sbb tak abes2..akhirnye federer menang jugak!huhu...ari ahad tgk final...oo..ye...
semalam dok natsukashi tengok vclip lagu fragile kat youtube...lagu ni lagu first mummy tau sesampai kat jepun...sebab kak yan selalu pasang masa tumpang umah dier....hubby suka jugak lagu nih sbb dier kata..goreng gitar dier bess...aa...natsukashii...sori ler takder translation...malas nak cari...n malas nak traslate...
night-night everyone...enjoy the song!
seperti yang anda dapat lihat,di sudut kanan atas blog ni ada link BukuBook...kami ingin memulakan bisnes used book secara online...buku tak banyak lagi tp di update dari semasa ke semasa..range buku lebih kepada fiction...ader juga non-fiction seperti autobiography orang-orang popular, esp footballers...kami sedang cuba menambahkan koleksi buku kanak-kanak...di kala harga barang tengah naik mungkin anda tertarik dengan buku used yang lebih murah,kan?oleh kerana buku-buku kami terpakai...harap faham yang bukan semua dalam keadaan seperti baru...tapi jangan bimbang, kami pastikan semua buku kami dalam kualiti yang baik untuk pembeli! sila lah jenguk2 jika berminat!sila hubungi kami jika ingin request apa-apa buku,jika mampu kami akan cuba cari untuk anda!
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Sekiranya anda ada buku untuk di let go,kami juga boleh bantu anda untuk menjualnya.Kami akan ambil sedikit commision for handling, postage cost,etc...sila hubungi kami untuk keterangan lanjut, ye! ( but, we are considering this type of business bila sudah pulang ke tanahair..)
today was a great day for outdoor activity.we went to the park near our house n played fun tennis!yey!sungguh seronok.fareehah was excited watching us playing.then she walked around the ground..yey!finally nak jugak dia jalan kat luar...maybe the weather was great, n she does not have to wear so many layers of clothes!she was busy toddling,when that big dog came.fareehah tengok je anjing tu..tapi tak nangis...last2 dier suh mummy dokong dier...n tak mo jalan dah.so we packed our things n jalan balik..pusing2 jap keliling padang n singgah iceland,beli barang sket.then we took a long route balik umah...
semalam read the news in utusan...malaysia naik lagi harga minyak...fuhhh...pas ni kete yang laku cuma keta ber cc rendah la ekkk...kete cc besar tak larat la nak bayar minyak..huhu...keter atos mummy kalo full...dlm 40l kot...dlm rm110 kana....mak aiii...lepas ni sumer orang dok rumah je la tak jalan-jalan naik kete....hubby kata ader org wat comparison harga minyak mesia with other negara yg mengeksport minyak...memang mesia paling mahal...banding arab saudi,or venezuela n nigeria n few other country...maybe the fact that malaysia eksport minyak ke luar...tapi for petrol usage dalam negara still beli from luar mempengaruhi...plus taraf hidup rakyat di setiap negara yang berbeza kan...anyway...economicians yang lebih layak jawab berbanding mummy yg tak der pengetahuan dlm ekonomi...
sekarang pon bila tgk bbc news kecoh pasal food shortage around the world...adakah mungkin boleh berlaku harga makanan naik tinggi sehingga yang mampu kita makan hanyalah ubi kayu mcm masa perang...dan mereka yg bercucuk tanam sendiri akan jadi org paling mewah?humm...atau yg berlaku sekarang ni hanya propagaanda kuasa-kuasa besar dunia...tak tau la...
ganbatte to us!the world is getting wierder everyday...
lagu abc ni fareehah suka sangat...eventhough hubby kata lagu nih pelik...yang pasti bile nyanyi lagu ni time tukar diaper kurang la sket dia nak lari sana sini
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ari ni is my hubby last paper..jap lg pukul 2 pm...ganbatte ne hubby-chan...!!!ima made yoku ganbatta kara!dekiru yooo!...paper subject continuum mechanics...kalo dengar hubby citer pasal subject2 dia belaja...selalu rasa nak study balik...dier selalu la citer ape dier belaja dalam kelas ari2...omoshiroi...walaupon mummy nih tak suka sangat subject fizik nih...bagus jugak dier selalu cerita...leh prektis nanti nak ngajar orang kan...
okla tu je...!
out of 19 jobs i applied on jobstreet, already 4 are in unsuccessful status.these are the reasons i think why i was not considered :
1- i am over qualified for few of them
2- do not have experience for the jobs i applied.. ( since i am switching my work field drastically ) well if u don't give me the job..how would i have the experience...
3- i stated that i will be available in september...so that is not good ehhh...
4- i stated that i am not in malaysia right now,but will be back real soon!....
anyways,quite suprising to know that most of the my jobs application has been viewed more than once...ala-ala macam nak amik je..tp sbb all the reasons...still considering...tak de la tgk sekali je terus tak minat..one employer even viewed my resume 5 times!...hehehe...anyway sekarang just test market...one or two months before balik mesia,will do job hunting more aggresively.!yosh ganbare!
still tak melupakan hasrat nak sambung belaja balik...is considering very much to do part time study...sebab..mendapat contoh my brother, yang tinggal lagi satu paper je nak abes ACCA dier...wat part time tuh!memang gigih...salute...lama jugak dier nak abes sumer peksa tuh..ramai orang start amek ACCA tp tgh jalan fed up n tak larat..tp my bro can do it!pokok pangkal,jangan putus asa!..gud luck for ur last exam ee!kalau lulus belanja la kitorang makan sate...hehehe...
as for my little brother...hope he can pursue degree this time...cian dier lama nunggu...padehal result bagus...tak de rezeki nak wat cane...tak sempat le nak pau baskin robin cani....aiseehh..
n my lovely little sis....anda sungguh gembira dengarnya keje kat um yer..bagus-bagus...nanti abes master sambungle phd plak...hehe...i know u can do it!...at least tak kene call memalam buta ( pkl 2 or 3 am kdg2 tuh ok..suh dtg kilang.. ) suh cek mesin mcm masa kat kilang dulu ye tak..
to my beloved hubby plak...i love u...selamat ganbare abeskan dissertation projek...hehehe...nanti leh balik mesia...yeyey!
tadi tengok website pasal bengkung lepas bersalin...tgh browse kat situ ade link pasal tukang urut...esp lepas bersalin...tgk2...terasa plak cam bestnya kalau bole pegi berurut....haaa...mesti syok...huhu....balik mesia nak gi berurut la...huhu...last masa bersalin fareehah la...time kene urut badan ...mak aii...syok giler...bab kene urut perut tuh je...aduiii...cam nak nangis pon ader...sakitnyer...lalala...tp tukang urut yg pandai mmg ada ekk...makcik tu masa dier urut dier kata "anak (fareehah) ni suka dok belah kiri ke...belah kanan ni kosong je..." mummy sengih je...memang btul pon...tp masa urut belah kiri memang la sakit...bila urut kanan sedap je..hehe..aaa....balik nanti akan ku telefon makcik tukang urut...tanya..mak cik nak urut badan leh tak...hehehe..
starting this week until 2nd week of june...hubby is having his final exam for his master course...so saya juga kurang bermood untuk berblogging...anyway,doakan my hubby will pass with flying colours ye!
tiba-tiba ku berasa lapar...esok cakap ngan hubby nak wat bihun sup...uuu...bess nya...lapa...patut la terasa perut ini semakin menggeleber...semakin kuat makan rupanya mummy ni!bahaya..bahaya...
...lama tak wat pivot table...terkial-kial je...dulu masa keje kilang...excel n power point nante,mondaineee...hehehe...sekarang apa sudah jadii...ni la orang malas...edit gambar pon guna power point je...tak kuasa nak beli photoshop...nanti bila2...nak belaja guna gimpshop la tapi...good open source for photoshop alternatif datte..byk sungguh benda nak belaja...linux,joomla,cms,xml,php,cubecart menarik juga nak belaja guna...html dah lama tak guna berjam ngadap laptop nih...
night-night everyone...sudah penat mengadap excel n power point for our family project..lepas baby tido tak larat juga nak stay up lama sgt...tp at least get a few things done,yey!
kesian fareehah.on saturday n sunday mummy busy wat keje..main sket je ngan dia...tp nasib baik dier tak meragam sangat..main happily dekat ngan mummy...=) mummy busy update resume n cari keje la...maklumla,dah setahun tak keje resume dah berabuk...kene make-up sket la resume tuh..tukar2 sket apa yang patut.since kitorang made a decision to look for another alternatif place for hubby sambung belajar ni kan...byk la plan lain plak bertambah.ouh...lupa nak citer..beside japan n uk..kitorang juga decide untuk apply phd kat malaysia university...bukan apa...economy n family wise...it is a good alternatif kan.da kara koso,if rezeki kami bukan di uk or japan...mungkin ader rezeki di malaysia ...n mummy have to go back to work la...agak bagus juga kalo balik mesia,sbb mummy leh build up my career path sooner.kalo dok oversea n tak dapat keje yg menuju ke arah my aim career...agak susah la nak cari market bila nak cari keje semula...lets say 3,4 tahun lagi kan...prospect employer pon tgk resume...nampak tak kukuh je...browse juga jobstreet..( mana lagi..that is one of the job portal ) ...tgk2 byk ke keje yg mummy nak try tu...ader la jugak...tp knowing jobstreet...bukan ari nih kita mintak,minggu depan dier panggil interview...kadang2 lama baru tau dapat ke tidak...depend on company tu punya vacant urgency jugak..beribu orang apply keje from jobstreet kan...bukan kita sorang anta resume kat dier....
kalo tak dapat full time job,buat sementara nak mintak jugak kumon tuh...location pon menarik...just waktu keje la pelik sket...3pm-9pm....ada ke nursery leh anto anak 1pm-6pm aa?harus mummy search gak pasal benda ni...dulu ader mintak kumon,tp tak dapat sbb terkantoi lak ckp ngan dier nak keje 5 bulan je sebelum fly...ape daaa...haiii interview skill pon dah a little bit rusty ni...
n then for straight two days,dok ganbare with hubby to do a family project.hopefully by sept ke oct ke the project can be launched properly...now a lot of planning n preparation to make..intai-intai market kat malaysia...huummm...will tell about the project when the path is clearer...till then!
today is one fine day.did a spring clean-up during the afternoon.fareehah was very happy playing in the room whilst i cleaned, i let her help me with the dishes...or actually i let her play with the bubbles in the sink while i wash the dishes...that kept her amused for about 20 minutes..took me almost one hour to fold the clothes,since she kept unfolding them...haha...maybe she tought she was helping me!...after hubby got back from school we took a walk ( as always..) to watan to buy meat n chicken.on the way there met sakinah n rafiqi ...who were having dinner at dixy chicken ( if not mistaken ) .sakinah said she is dued in 2-3 weeks...must be so exciting!happy for her too..hope everything will be smooth n easy for her.on the way home we took a different route home...fareehah did not want to sit in her pushchair,so we ended carrying her on our arms till we almost reach home.hope tomorrow would be as fine as today,so that i can take fareehah to park to play n practise walking outside.
huhu...si comel baru tido..dlm stroller punye cot tuh..tp cot tuh bole cabut...so letak sebelah mummy..sambil mummy surf internet...huhu...mula-mula ingat nak citer pasal nak sambung study...tp cam tak jadi la...hahaha...ngarut sungguh mummy ari ni...
apa nak mummy citer haaa...oh...jadual harian ku yg sungguh lah bosan...mungkin pada pandangan mata orang lain...tp mummy ok je...lg 5 bulan gurai je camni...huahuahua...bgn2...mandi dengan lajunya...sbb tak nak si comel tuh bangun...alih2 keluar bathroom dah dengar suara dier cakap-cakap ngan abah dier...aiseyman....hubby sarapan n siap2 nak gi school...so mummy ajak si comel baring balik..sbb dier tido tak cukup jam lg...kalo tak tido balik nanti dier cranky the whole day...pujuk2 sket...bagi susu...ewahh...suka la dier...senyap je..mcm nak tido...alik2 abah dier masuk bilik nak saya mata ne...die laju jer bangun sengih2 kat abah dier...adoii!...anakku nih...sesungguhnya gigimu itu sungguh tajam yer sayang...dia dah kissy-kissy abah...mummy ajak baring..tp dier tak nak...dok jalan-jalan keliling bilik tu...amek deodorant mummy plak...hahaha..bagi mummy...aikk..mummy busuk ke..baru je mandi ni...sambil2 dier lompat2 atas tilam gosok2 mata...ooohhh...dah ngantuk balik la tuh...mula la dier rengek2 sambil selak2 baju mummy dier...so dier pon susu lagi n tido balik..sambil mummy berangan-angan...n pastu mummy pon terlajak tido ngan dier...tak produktif sungguh...sejam pastu...kejut si comel..n pi dapur amek susu n bowl n sudu...nak breakfast...pi ruang tamu,bukak tv pasang baby tv..best sebab lagu budak..n dlm 20 minit je dier tgk tv tu,pastu tutup tv...sambil tuh suap jugak si comel nih...tp ari ni dier makan sket je...lepas tuh dier carik buku dier n baca buku sama-sama...lepas baca buku mummy masukkan baju dalam washing machine...alik2 si comel ku nih dah masuk bilik...dok sengih2 atas tilam...n tunjuk teddy bear dier..n kata.."baby..baby.."..mummy betulkan..kata.."bear..bear...teddy bear"...tp dier sengih n tunjuk lg kat bear dier cakap "baby..."...la nih sumer bende dier cakap baby...tunjuk laptop baby,tunjuk tv pon baby...tunjuk gambar dier masa baru lahir,baby jugak...pastu yg kelaka tunjuk abah pon baby...hahahaha...lepas golek2 n lompat2 atas tilam...mummy amek baju nak pakai ari nih..n ajak dier masukkan air dalam bath tub...ready sumer si comel ku pon splashing2 la dalam air hangat tuh...suka giler mandi...kalau dah masuk mandi...mummy nak angkat dier dr tub tuh tak mo...pas mandi n siap2 ngan baju lawa...dier amek buku lagi...suh baca...tp pastu mummy teringat baju tak sidai lagik..so kendong la dier dalam sling sambil jemur baju....pastu lompat2 atas sofa plak....dah penat...dier kuarkan magntic board die...nak lukis2 plak...huhu...lukis2 nih ader turn tau...mula2 dier lukis...pastu dier akan bg kiter plak lukis...kalo tak mo dier akan insist kiter lukis...lepas kiter lukis,dier mintak blk...dier lukis plak...pastu dier suruh erase.....camtu la berulang2...sampai dier dah penat scribbling....dah penat...kitorang lunch...ari nih makan spageti...mcm biasa dier mkn sket je...main yg lebih...sbb mummy tak abes makan lagi,dier pi dapur amek fridge magnet...bawak gi living room...tunjuk kat mama apa dier amek...pastu...dier pi carik tempat nak lekat...dulu lekat kat central heating...tp sekarang dah tau kat meja makan tu bole lekat...dier lekat kat situ plak....pastu amek yg lain plak....dah susun2 kat meja dier cabut balik satu-satu pi lekat balik kat fridge...hahaha...kelaka budak kecik nih....pastu apa yg korang baca dr atas td ulang semula..sampai la nih...dier tido...sbb dah ngantuk...ingat nak pi park belakang nih bwk dier jalan2 cam semalam..tp kene tunggu dier bgn dulu la...pegi sorang boring je..td geng nak bercakap...penat la seharian bercakap ngan si comel je..kot hubby balik cepat cam semalam bole gi sama2...hehe...okie la nak wat keje lain...mata ne...maaf jika busan je korang baca...hehe...
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people always ask me..."tak nak sambung belajar lg ke...?"huhu...mentang2 the hubby sambung study...mummy kena tempias juga...jawapan saya ialah...nak...blum ader rezeki lagi je....n then when i said that...people will ask also..."nak sambung amek ape?"....huhu...bab ni yg tricky sket nak jawab...truthfully,dah tak de hati nak sambung bidang computer related lg,or bidang engineering...baru realized about one thing i am passionate about....since long ago but never properly nourished...children n teaching...mesti ade yg kata...la rugi laaa...tp saya rasa tak rugi beralih bidang...n mungkin ader yg kata...ader market ke nak keje amek bidang nih...but,i see a potential...maybe not now,but maybe next 10,15 years or so....so sekarang tengah berangan-angan la nih...siap dah search pasal prospect research field...hahaha...tp sebelum tuh kene keje dulu kumpul duit...in case la tak dapat mintak scholarship kan...kene la standby...plan A,plan B n plan C kene la ada kan...kalau nak sambung pon mungkin nak buat local aje...UM,UKM,UPM n UPSI ader course tuh...buat mana pon sama asalkan kita berusaha kan...hehehe...tengah jishin mangmang punya ayat...byk nak tulis nih...tp nantila..si kecik dah bgn pulak...huhu...mummy tak de masa nak memblog sekarang...sibuk "main" ngan fareehah je...
yesterday,my fareehah turned 1 year old!..yey!made a small chocolate cake..n some food..ajak along je dtg umah..tak celebrate beria pon...hehe...nanti lah fareehah dah besar sket baru leh ajak ramai sket..anyway..semoga fareehah jadi anak dan insan yang baik..amin..nanti tulis lagi..fareehah dok berebut keyboard ngan mama dia...
as my baby grows up day by day....she learns as many things as i learn...recently found a really good website called zerotothree...which give a guide for early childhood education.i was always worried that i started too late to develop her learning skills,as i never seriously use flash cards or teach her alphabets recognization properly...well,reading through this website,somehow i feel assured that my methods are quite right...n not too pushy for her...we bought her some concepts book...abc,words n number books..but we let her browse as she likes it.easier to say..we make her lead her own learning pace.at first she was turning all the pages very fast...she kept on turning the pages,n repeat it again...that i wonder...does this make sense?but i keep saying n pointing a few words or picture here n there as she flipped the pages...then these few weeks...she still flipping the pages...but she will pause at pictures that she likes n point to the pictures,n i will said it aloud...it is very exciting when we come to the animal page...when she points to an animal,i will said the animals name aloud and make it sounds...she really likes the lion...when she points at the lion sometimes she will said "akkkhhh"...hehe...very cute indeed.i use the same method when reading storybooks.some times she just flip the pages.so i only point the pictures at her n tell her what we saw...for some words that can be turned into action...i will do dramatic readings..haha..there is one book that amuses her so much..bear book that describe about a baby bear...on the last page is a picture mama bear tickling the baby bear on his tummy...with the final word "and one tickly tum"...everytime i read this sentence i will tickle the baby bear picture.nowadays everytime i read the sentence,fareehah will said "tickly,tickly tummm"..n tickle the baby bear...hehehe...
i do hope she will love to read,as nowadays she will take her book herself for me to read...i almost never have to initiate reading n looking at books to her..=) she takes the lead,n i follow..n that was stressed in the website...follow your child lead...hopefully i am doing the right thing.
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we laugh n cherished by their existense...n far more important...the lessons we learn from them...always observe a child..n you will notice their similarity....they are not afraid..they take risk...they are not afraid to fail..when they fail...they continue to strive till they succeed...
a baby who learn to walk fall many times..yet she get up again...she may cry a bit when she fell,yet she is not afraid to try again...n when she succeed,she clap her hands.. :)
we the adults sometimes forget those quality that we too have...not so long time ago...sometimes we fall hard n we are so afraid to get up again...we are so afraid to take next step...worried that we may fail..worried that we will not succeed n crushed the hearts of the ones we love...yes...we have too many concerns..that we forgot to concentrate, n just settle for the comforts of our life...we know we can do more yet we are afraid to take the risk...be brave...if being a perfectionist make u afraid..then don't be...at least for the mean time...look at the world through the eyes of a child..n you will see the difference...you will notice..how blue the sky is,how rough the leaf feel on your fingers...even how the wind changes when it blew on your face...n you will see a whole new world...a world with so many possibilities..with so many wonders that you have forgotten to explore...n not to forget that this life is only the DUNIA...
p/s: this advice is for me...who is counting the days to take a new step...be brave me...
corn flour paint:
1/2 cup corn flour
1/2 cup cold water
4 cups boiling water
colour ( i used food color )
method: add corn flour with cold water,then boiling water.boil in pan for 1 minute.cool.scoup into four container.add colouring ,more to make darker colour.store in refrigerator.
for my fareehah i just add cold water,corn flour and color,because i assume she won't get the idea of painting as soon i introduce it to her.just wanna introduce her to paint,n colors, n what u can do with the paint.
more idea from me:
your toddlers will have so much fun dipping their fingers in the color cause it feels muddy,so why not make them do some experiments..such as combining those color to make new color?you can initiate this by asking them..."do you know that we can make more color using these color?"...or just say "do you want to see some magic show?"
then let say u want to make purple color...dip your baby fingers in blue color and smear in a container..then dip into red color n smear into the blue color...and walla!PURPLE color!!!get the idea?...n give your baby a clap after they manged to transform the color!
happy trying!
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yey!today i braven myself to introduce my baby to painting.we did cornflour finger painting n bathtub finger painting
fingerpainting using cornflour:
made three colors..blue,red n yellow.i think i was more excited than my baby...she was more amazed looking at me smearing the colors on the paper...hehe...she was very excited to dip her fingers in the paint..than smearing them on the paper.she laughed so hard while watching me demonstrate it to her...hehe..anyway,i was so glad that she looked as though as she was having fun.although the paper was hardly smeared..haha..maybe when she is bigger she will grasp the idea of painting more...:)
bathtub finger paint:
mix some color n hand wash with water.strip down your baby to her diaper.blob the paint into the empty tub n let her play with it!this one is one very good idea.just careful not to let the baby step on the colors cause it is very slippery.fareehah enjoyed smearing the colors all over the bathtub.she laughed so hard looking at the colors she smeared on the bathtub...haha...afterwards we made bubble using the paint too..!n she was excited looking at the bubbles i made.wash the bathtub with warm water n proceed to having your baby daily bath!
did not manage to take pictures...maybe some other time.the recipes for bathtub paint n cornflour paints colud be obtain from the my link i think...the familyeducation link..
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tadi tengok-tengok website fudosan kat okayama...kalo bole nak cari umah sebiji..kalo tak baole..kene apato gak..bukan apa...nihonjin nih kan sensitip sket pasal bising nih...ader anak kecik yg dok berlari melompat kang komplen plak depa kat oyasan..lagipon kalo umah sebijik ni selalu kat area komuniti..n bukan student area sangat..so mungkin lebih sesuai..umah sewa mummy ni 3 bilik...2 bilik 4.5 jyo and satu bilik 6 jyo...yacchin 25000 yen...murah gila aaa...dlm rm 700~800 kana...nak bandin uk...umah 350 GBP about RM 2350...jauh beza kan...tp uk mostly fully furnished aa.. rasa leh dapat tak ikodate bawah 4man yen aa kat okayama..
kerap kali semasa menyusukan atau menidurkan anak saya,saya akan berpesan supaya dia menjadi seorang yang rajin berusaha,berkelakuan baik,hormat orang tua,sayangkan mama n abahnya,n macam-macam lagi pesanan....semoga pesanan itu melekat dalam mindanya sehingga ke dewasa...dari dia berusia dua bulan saya selalu memberi galakkan kepadanya untuk rajin berusaha...dan tidak hanya menangis...bahkan cuba dan cuba lagi hingga berjaya...pada masa itu dia ingin belajar mengiring dan meniarap...setiap kali dia menangis kerana tidak berjaya menggerakkan tubuhnya...saya akan pujuk fareehah dengan berkata..."cuba lagi ye...nak berjaya kena usaha..tak boleh putus asa...fareehah good girl!"...dan apabila berjaya...pujian dan ciuman sayang saya berikan padanya...sambil tepuk tangan..sejak itu dier memang menjadi seorang yang berusaha gigih untuk mencapai semua baby milestone...dia sangat marah jika saya bantu alihkan tangan dia supaya lebih senang meniarap...dia nak buat sendiri..good girl!...
mesti pelikkan orang kalau dengar saya selalu cakap fareehah kene rajin berusaha pada seorang bayi yang kecil...pada saya sangat penting menerapkan semangat rajin berusaha kepada anak-anak kita dari kecil,supaya mereka lebih berdaya saing apabila besar kelak...mungkin juga semangat berusaha itu telah ditanamkan kepada saya oleh ibu bapa saya sejak kecil maka saya juga ingin semangat itu diteruskan kepada anak saya.saya masih ingat mak saya selalu berpesan supaya rajin berusaha,jika nak sama pandai dengan budak-budak bangsa lain.maklumlah,bersekolah di sekolah di mana melayu adalah minoriti...memang susah nak tengok budak melayu menyinar.tapi alhamdulillah,pesanan dan galakan yang berterusan dari ibu bapa saya...orang pon dah boring tengok muka saya naik pentas amik hadiah tiap-tiap tahun...bak kata seorang kawan cina saya..."eh,mesti boring la orang tengok asek muka u aja dapat nombor satu.."...hahaha...saya sengih je...semasa di sekolah menengah juga mak dan ayah saya bagi galakan yang kuat..kata mereka jika nak masuk sekolah yang bagus ( mrsm la...sebab masa form 1 dapat sbp tapi tak pi..) ,n nak masuk universiti yang bagus kene rajin berusaha...walaupon orang kata melayu ni senang nak masuk universiti..tapi lagi ramai yang pandai dari kita...dan kalau kita nak masuk universiti yang kita nak..kene la dapat result yang bagus supaya pilihan itu di tangan kita..budak result bagus saja yang bole dapat masuk universiti pilihan sendiri...alhamdulillah...selepas spm dipanggil interview oleh JPA untuk melanjutkan pelajaran ke luar negeri...dan ditanya negara pilihan...jepun,uk atau us...pilihan saya jepun...n the rest u might have guessed already.bapa saya selalu kata...dia tak punya harta atau wang yang byk untuk anak-anak dia...tp dia boleh beri kasih sayang dan ilmu untuk kami...ilmu adalah satu-satunya bekal untuk kami menghadapi dunia ini...tanpa ilmu u are nothing...yes...i agree...parents saya tak pernah take for granted yang melayu nih ada kuota nak masuk universiti etc...walaupon anak-anak die semua jenis memang layak nak masuk universiti..tapi tekankan kene berusaha dengan kuat untuk capai apa yang kami mahu...bukan dengan bantuan "orang dalam" atau orang panggil "kabel"...kalau layak masuk,tak layak...terima lah apa yang selayaknya kita terima...
kita mesti percaya bahawa rezeki dunia ini milik semua...dan milik mereka yang berusaha...tak mengira bangsa dan warna kulit....
ari nie terbaca kisah sufiah..budak genius yg masuk oxford masa dia 13 thn...n what become of her now...kesian sangat...aduh...sedih bila baca how she turns up...nauzubillah...bila baca kisah sufiah makin la risau tentang fareehah n kalau ader rezeki adek-adek fareehah...betapa besar n beratnya tanggungjawab yang di amanahkan oleh Allah kepada mummy n hubby...sangat-sangat berat...ya Allah semoga Engkau permudahkan segala urusan kami...
mummy masih mentah sangat2 dalam hal mendidik anak..yerla..anak kami baru umur berapa kan...tapi...banyak sangat yang perlu difikirkan...7 years from now my baby akan masuk sekolah...so what should i do to prepare her mentally n physically?...i want her to love to learn...to love discovering new things...n love the knowledge that Allah had laid so widely for us to explore...yet i don't want my good intentions to push her over her limits...where do i draw the line...right now i just go with her flow...read when she wants to read...eat when she wants to eat...play when she wants to play...sing n dance when she wants to...sumtimes use flashcards to entertain her...that is all...but since she is going to be one...i am aiming for a more structural schedule....i will still do as she wants...but i hope to slip in a new activity for her once a week...maybe some craft or art or discovery or science or music activity for her...walking in the park a few times a week for some exercise..( anyone care to join me for this activities..?) ...i am training myself to explain more things to her...not difficult things...just simple things in life...why do we have to brush our teeth...what is inside our meal today...simple things like that...n her ask her questions...why do you arrange the blocks like that...right now i am browsing books n websites that teach fun stuffs to do with ur babies n toddlers...have a book or two in mind...maybe gonna buy them..
for a new mummy like me...other people might think other wise..i always think that religion,love and knowledge is the most important...n hubby always remind me to do things the way Islam taught us...to love our children the islam taught us,to give them knowledge the way islam taught us...islam is a way of life..when we are confused n need guidance...islam is the answer...n to make rasulullah s.aw our role model in life...i pray to Allah to open our hearts to be nearer to His path...amin...n do pray for us too ehh..
a scen from sitcom F.R.I.E.N.D.S....
Rachel: Listen. Sudden change of plans. My maternity leave just ended. They told me that if I didn't come back today, they were gonna fire me.
Ross: What? No, that's illegal. I'm gonna have the labor department down her so fast they won't even...
Rachel: Alright, alright. Calm down Norma Rae. They didn't actually say that. I'm just afraid if I don't come back right now this guy's gonna try to squeeze me out.
Ross: What about Emma? We don't have a nanny.
Rachel: I know. You know, we're just gonna have to figure out a plan tonight. Can you please just take care of her for today?
Ross: Absolutely. Just give me your breast and we'll be on our way.
Rachel: Come on, I don't know what else to do.
Ross: Fine, fine. (To Emma) We'll have fun, won't we? Yes, we will, yes we will. (Gives her a kiss, and the pink bow tapes itself to his head.)
after the scripts on BOLD,my hubby said..."la...pam le.."
hehe...i am so proud of my hubby who is very supportive of breastfeeding..hehe
tu je..
time is precious...everyone knows it...but we hardly appreciate it until we think we have no time...everyday i have 1~2 hours a day for myself..it occurs when my baby napping in the afternoon...like now...that is the time for me to solat,eat lunch,wash the clothes,tidying the room,surf the internet for some latest news,reading some blogs...surf some more for some info about babies,health,etc...it is a really precious 1 hour...some people might say...well u get a free hour per day...so what..?it makes a big difference to me...because it is the time i can fully concentrate on me...that is the only time i can quench my thirst for knowledge...through the internet...n it does make me more cheerful as a person...
i have no complaints on my own decision to be a SAHM...u luv spending so much time with my baby,but sometimes being a mum to a fussy baby can really put u to some edge...before this my baby only wanted to sleep on my lap...as soon as i put her on the sleeping mat she will scream her head off until i pick her up...so...though she was sleeping ..i could not get anything done...n eventhough i get some time surfing on the internet...i end up having bad backache n neckache...we bought a new pram for her...very cosy one..n can fully reclined down...to be used as her cot also during the day...keep it fuwa-fuwa..n warm...n tried to get her to sleep in there..n it worked!what a relief...n that is how i get my precious 1 hour a day...THE END
ari ni fareehah masuk 11 bulan!..dah leh jalan walaupon terkedek-kedek...n selalu jatuh sebab selalu nak kona cepat2...hehe...pandai masukkan donut2 dier dalam tiang dia...n sangat suka bagi mama buku soh baca..tp kadang2 sebab dier suka alih2 mukasurat buku...tak baca pon...just nak prektis alih muka surat...hehe...
i luv my baby...always!
ijyou desu.
saikin ( seminggu dua nih..) byk sgt rasanya menonton bangumi property investment n home refurbish...hahaha...tp menarik bangumi dia..mcm semalam tgk grand design orang wat umah dlm tanah...mcm umah hobbits...hehehe...very high tech rumah dier...n very suprisingly umah dier tak perlukan boiler!...jimat elektrik n gas betul!...sebab suhu umah dier di antara 16 degree to 23 degree...iaitu 16 degree lowest pada waktu fuyu n 23 degree masa natsu..!so tak yah pasang heater time fuyu n takyah pasang aircond masa natsu!best2...sgt seronok juga tengok bangumi property investment di mana beli umah di auction n refurbish lawa2 with minimum budget n sell or rent it...suka tgk cara2 refurbish umah...to make it appealing for renter n buyers....apa akibatnya tgk byk sangat bangumi cani..?
kitorang dok terpikir...lambatnya lagi nak beli umah sendiri..ari tuh ader gak usha2...tp sebab kami di sini...susah lah plak nak urus jual beli...so mungkin tak de rezeki nak beli umah tuh...we keep on looking for this time being..to find a place to call home..
after a long silence,i manage to update my japanese sharing blog...nihongo de hanashimashou!...do take a look if u are interested...n do correct me if if there are any incorrect grammar,or word meaning...as i am still learning too...
thanks.
i was browsing through susuibu.com ( click to see the website ) forums n came across this forum : muslim home school ( click to see the forum ) ...mummy read n read n cannot stop reading!the subject was very..very interesting....! i dont't intend to homeschool my children...but i do intend to provide them with the basic skills to learn.. listening n obeying rules,talking,reading,maybe writing or drawing,n of course counting...the basics element...not to train them to be a genious...just brushing up their skill to prepare them for school..
when i was small..i could read at 4..which is not so great pon..but my mum was quiet proud of me i think..but i did not learn to write until i was 7 which is when i enroll to school...i still remembered...how terkial-kial i was to write...when all my classmate could write already..( well most of them!)...but it was fun to learn when you were small!hehe...
anyways...back to the forum...it was a hot topic...n so much i did not know...such as buku-buku x-tra,iqra' ( heard of them but never see or used them ),GD products...methods to educate ur children, such as sichida methods,kumon ( very familiar...but not really sure of their methods!very popular in japan though nmalaysia)...n mummies there also gives a lot of tips n website to help to educate children...a few of mummies there actually have genius babies!wow!-there are ways to know if your baby is genius...read from NAGC website..back to education methods,of course using flash card is the most popular methods...i made flash cards for fareehah too..but using powerpoint slide...n show it to her after she is bored playing,reading her her books...or when i don't have ideas to entertain her anymore..it always works,especially when she is fresh from taking her nap!...because i made the slide to change quiet fast about 1 second per slide..she loves to see the slide changes...n using computer seems perfect to me because she cannot touch the slides..i am going to continue reading the forum today...
i was amazed how hard the mama work,to try to homeschool her babies!...terasa diri ini ...amai naaaa...motto ganbarou yo mummy!i am so glad i found this kind of network...which support each other!may this website help more malaysian mummies out there!
hummm...macam mana nak mula yer....errr....aaaa....this is about the future...not so far away...bout 6 months from now...that is lepas hubby abes master degree...we are thinking of going back to japan for hubby to pursue his PhD...why japan?nanti la cerita...but it offers more opportunity than UK...generally for our family...n hubby has already found a suitable research lab n a suitable supervisor who already agreed to supervise him verbally...so sekarang tgh proceed dengan prosedur ke sana..for the first six month hubby will become a research student or in japanese kenkyu sei...before taking exam to qualify for a PhD..if he did well,the supervisor will take him as his PhD student...
as for me...my first aim is to sit for ikkyu exam,n pass with flying colors...the exam is held once a year on december,so upon arriving in japan,mungkin tak sempat nak bengkyo...so i plan to take the exam on december 2009...which gives me about a year to study n attend some classes...after that i plan to get me some work...which will make me change my visa to working visa plak...if tak dapat full time job,will get part time job....
as for fareehah,once arriving japan we will search for nursery,kalau dapat yg government punya la...kalau tak dapat yg private pon ok jugak...pasal kalau la boleh nak fareehah able to converse sket2 in japanese..alang2 nak dok nihon 3 thn setengah kan...english n malay gurai we can teach her ourselves..tp nihongo kalau lebih berpeluang bergaul dengan toddlers jepon lg cepat tangkap rashi...walaupon awal2 tu mesti dier blank je...tgk anak2 gaijin lain masa kat fukui...masuk tadika/nursery kejap je pandai ckp jepon...
hujan emas di negeri orang,
hujan batu di negeri sendiri,
baik lagi negeri sendiri...
cantik,indah,senang n maju mana pon di negeri orang,lebih baik di negeri sendiri...di negeri orang tetap dipandang as an outsider,foreigner,gaijin,alien....di negeri sendiri...feels truly at home...hope everything goes well n bole balik mesia cepat...
everytime sumone forward zodiac things to me..i'll always have a laugh!...some are riddiculous...though some are miraculously true...at least to me...this is me....
AQUARIUS - The Sweetheart ~ ( Jan 20 - Feb 18 )
Optimistic and honest. ...am honest i think ....
last night i was awaken by the sound of the door creaking...i looked at the clock...it was 3 am...hubby just finished studying n coming to bed...the baby was sound asleep...me n hubby talked for a while, n he asked my opinion of lefting our children with grandparents while we go to work....n my answer is absolutely no!...WHY?
rasa menyusahkan mak n abah plak...dahlah diorang baru abes penat jaga kita from kecik...nak tambah plak beban kat diorang jaga cucu...kesian la kat diorang...rasa tak patut sungguh mintak parents kita jaga anak kita...masa ni lah diorang ader peluang nak wat apa2 yang diorang nak wat...gi melancong ke,gi kelas mengaji ke,gi aktiviti2 lain ke...dulu sibuk keje tak de masa....lagipon kudrat orang tua nak jaga budak2 kecik tak sama cam orang muda...kalau emergency yang tak de pilihan lain tu...tak pe...kene tinggal sehari due ok jugak...kalau on daily basis...issshhh....tak patut...walaupon diorang insist utk jaga anak...tak nak...
bagi mummy ada syarat kalau nak tinggalkan anak kat umah tok,nenek dier...hubby kene carik maid...maid uruskan anak,n wat keje umah yang patut...tok n nenek just main2 jer ngan cucu...anak nak mandi,makan,kencing,berak,tido maid yang uruskan...bukan tok nenek dier...bole?
paling tak setuju kalau ader orang-orang yang tinggal anak kat parents diorang sebab nak save duit nursery....hiiii...geram je...dah emo plak nih...
kesimpulannya, anak kita..jaga sendiri la...tak le jaga sendiri...pikirla cara lain...tp jgn nyusahkan mak ayah kita lagi...ok?
e mail forwarded by my sister-in-law...was soo touched,i decided to paste it here...
Suatu hari seorang bayi siap untuk dilahirkan ke dunia...
Dia bertanya kepada Tuhan : ' Para malaikat disini
mengatakan bahawa besok Engkau akan mengirimkan saya
kedunia, tetapi bagaimana cara saya hidup disana; saya
begitu kecil dan lemah ?'
Dan Tuhan menjawab: 'Aku telah memilih satu malaikat
untukmu. Ia akan menjaga dan mengasihimu .'
Bayi bertanya lagi: 'Tetapi disini; didalam syurga ini,
apa yang saya lakukan hanyalah bernyanyi, bermain dan
tertawa...Inikan sudah cukup bagi saya untuk berbahagia.'
'Malaikatmu akan bernyanyi dan tersenyum untukmu setiap
hari. Dan kamu akan merasakan kehangatan cintanya dan
menjadi lebih berbahagia'
'Dan bagaimana bisa saya mengerti disaat orang-orang
berbicara kepada saya jika saya tidak mengerti bahasa
mereka ?'
'Malaikatmu akan berbicara kepadamu dengan bahasa yang
paling indah yang pernah kamu dengar; dan dengan penuh
kesabaran dan perhatian. Dia akan mengajar kepadamu cara
berbicara.'
'Dan apa yang akan saya lakukan saat saya ingin berbicara
kepadaMu ?'
'Malaikatmu akan mengajarkan bagaimana cara kamu berdoa'
'Saya mendengar bahawa di Bumi banyak orang jahat. Siapa
yang akan melindungi saya ?
'Malaikatmu akan melindungimu; walaupun hal tersebut
mungkin akan mengancam jiwanya'
'Tapi, saya pasti akan merasa sedih kerana tidak
melihatMu lagi'
'Malaikatmu akan menceritakan kepadamu tentang Aku, dan
akan mengajarkan bagaimana agar kamu bisa kembali
kepadaKu; walaupun sesungguhnya Aku akan sentiasa
disisimu'
Disaat itu, Syurga begitu tenang dan heningnya sehingga
suara dari Bumi dapat terdengar, dan sang bayi bertanya
perlahan
'Tuhan, jika saya harus pergi sekarang, bisakah Kamu
memberitahuku nama malaikat tersebut ?'
'Kamu akan memanggil malaikatmu itu: 'IBU '
Ingatlah sentiasa kasih sayang dan pengorbanan ibu.
Berbakti, berdoa dan cintailah dia sepanjang masa.....
Dialah sesatunya harta yang tiada galang gantinya dunia
akhirat....
Dan untuk para ibu, ingatlah kisah ini dikala kamu hilang
sabar dengan karenah anak-anak yang sedang
embesar...sesungguh nya Syurga itu dibawah telapak
kakimu...
fareehah started to eat finger food since she is about 7 months old...giving finger food to baby is such a messy job...as most of the food will end up on the floor...but the baby will enjoy it sooo much,they don't even care about anything else...most of the time fareehah has bread for her finger food...sumtimes pear,or banana,or grapes..she will play with her food n practise to put in her mouth using her hands...at first she will put so much,that she cried because her mouth was soo full she could not chew them...but now she can control the size of food going into her mouth better...n chew them good before swallowing them..i think she likes finger food so much because she can pick things with her fingers n pop it into her mouth without me grabbing it away from her...i am thinking to introduce her to more finger food so that she can feed herself with hand better,n its a good motor skill practice...found a wonderful page,n thought to share it with u...here it is --->
finger food
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michael owen-roy keane-alan shearer-david beckham-frank lampard-steven gerard-fabregas-john terry-alan smith-peter crouch-fabio capello-eric cantona-jose mourinho
sape ha orang2 nih...depa tak kenal mummy...tapi mummy kenal diorang since berkahwin dengan sorang peminat bola sepak nih...atas tuh nama player2/coach bola sepak kat england nih...amazing kan what marriage can do to us...make us interested in something yang tak der la kita minat pon dulu...tp bila org yang kita sayang suka...sket sebanyak kita tau pasal benda tu...hehe...
lagi 3 ari nak ari sabtu...hehe
last night after preparing dinner, i breastfed my baby...whilst hugging her felt a sudden dizziness...dah lama tak rasa camtuh...cepat2 panggil hubby to get me something to eat...yesterday did not eat much sebab baby sangat2 ligat,n bila mama dia makan asek merengek je...so mkn sket sangat...both me n my baby have low blood counts...masa pregnant kan baby my blood count just bawah border...11.0g/dll....lepas bersalin had bleeding yang teruk sebab stitches tu melecet,n blood oozed from there...tuh yang darah byk hilang kot..( sori ye cam ngeri je bunyi nye...) ..masa fareehah about two months, mummy demam teruk....i fainted once...(nasib baik tak pegang fareehah masa tu..) ..bila wat blood test,HB dah makin turun...10.0g/dll...i was adviced to eat regularly,take multivitamin n eat food with high iron...tak lama pas tuh fareehah plak sakit n admitted to seberang jaya medical centre...masa tuh la dapat tahu fareehah punya blood count pon rendah...only 9.0g/dll...( nasib baik,sebab kalau 8.0 or below dah kategori severe anemic n kene masuk darah bila sakit,operation,etc ) sebab blood count rendah doctor kata bila dier sakit akan lambat sket baik from budak biasa,sebab anemic...tp alhamdulillah dok kat hospital tuh 3 ari je dah leh kuar...mungkin she is a fighter,n mummy bg mummy milk banyak2...dengan harapan dier cepat sembuh...sekarang tak taula,HB kitorang dah ok ker tak...tak cek...maybe balik mesia nanti or be4 trying for 2nd baby mummy nak cek darah
so...ape moral citer nih...?sila la makan diet yang seimbang...dan tahu keadaan tubuh anda...n take action untuk elakkan perkara yang tidak diingini berlaku...amalkan gaya hidup sihat! saya syorkan anda semua wat complete blood test kalau HB rendah untuk tahu punca anda anemic...kitorang ari tuh tak sempat...hehe..
ni pon rasa kepala ringan semacam je...jap gi kene lunch nih....bye!
nak update la pasal fareehah sket...sekarang dia dah 9 bln setengah...akal pon dah banyak...hehe...selagi tak tido memang tangan kaki tak diam..ader je keje die....merangkak keliling umah...tak pon meniti kat sofa n dinding ( sebab tak pandai jalan lepas tangan lagi..) ...sampai kat dinding/pintu,tepok2 pintu dengan tangan dier...kalau tengok komik strip or gambar2 dalam buku dier ,mulut dier pon mengomel sambil tunjuk2 gambar...konon2 cerita kat mama la aper dalam gambar tuh...sekarang dah tau mainan dier mama letak kat ne...dalam bakul toys die...so bila dier nak toys dier amek sendiri toys dia...selagi tak jumpa yang dier nak dia keluarkan satu-satu toys yang lain...sangat suka lentok2 kepala kat orang n sofa...sambil wat muka manja...haha...ader sekali dier lentok2 kepala kat dinding,terkuat agaknya...sakit...menangis...pas tu tak wat dah...lentok2 kat tempat lembut je...saikin suka sangat dier tido meniarap...mata tutup...tp dier merangkak ke depan,pastu meniarap sambung tido...time nyusu pon pelbagai gaya...sambil duduk la...sambil baring senget2 n kaki dok goyang2...sambil posisi merangkak...ikut syok dia je...paling suka dia nyusu sambil silang kaki...mcm fikri jugak...fareehah sangat suka bila mama or abah bacakan buku kat die...dier akan dok diam n dengar..n kadang2 nyahut ,hum...bila abes satu-satu ayat...kalau kita cakap ngan dier pon dier akan bagi henji kat kita...contoh kalau tanya...jom kita gi bilik sebelah?..dier akan balas...hum...!..baby nie yak ker...?die jwb hum!...mama tukar ye pampers fareehah?...dier akan jwp ..hum!kalau bukan humm,dier akan cakap dah!sumer bende...dah!yg paling baru pandai wat cebik bibir sambil bibir atas kemam kedalam...agak nya dier baru tahu bibir atas dier pon fleksible...bila ntah ari tuh cakap kat hubby ...nanti bila fareehah dah tak nyusu ngan mama,mesti rindu gila time peluk2 die masa nyusu..cepat je nak setahun dah...haaa...
hari ni umur saya dah 27 tahun...not so young anymore...yet not too old la...thn ni byk dpt birthday present from beloved hubby..hehehe...ureshii ne...!kata hubby mummy korban dok kat umah jaga baby,so ape mummy nak hubby beli kalo mampu...best!hehehe...thank you my hubby...!tak beli pape pon tak per,asalkan sayang kat mummy ye...achievement until 27 years old...apa yer...berjaya lulus sumer peksa sekolah dgn keputusan yang membanggakan parents mummy...berjaya grad from nihon tanpa ryunen...sebab abah pesan banyak kali doshitemo 4 tahun mesti balik n grad!hehehe...guess menghappykan parents mummy la bende2 tuh kan...berjaya keje as engineer walaupon kejap...setahun lebih je...berjaya melahirkan seorang anak...iaitu si comel fareehah..menghappykan diri sendiri n hubby...ehehe...what next...?
ari tuh tepon mesia...mak tanya cane nanti kat jepon...jadi ke gi jepon...mummy tahu mak n abah kalo bole mesti nak suruh mummy sambung belaja lagi...bukan tak nak...tapi sekarang nih mummy tgh dok tgk prospektif keje kalo nak sambung belaja tuh...belaja bole aje...tapi kene la ader mokuteki kan...mcm org nak jadi pensyarah memangla kene sambung belaja at least sampai master...then ape yang kite belaja tuh memang di dalam permintaan ker...contohnye kalau nak sambung wat diploma/master pendidikan kat jepon...pastu balik nak mintak keje kat sekolah/mrsm relevan ke degree tuh...watnya tak iktiraf kat mesia...balik mesia tak le keje pon...kene wat sekali lagi degree tuh...membazir jee...kalau nak jadi pensyarah kat ipta bole tapi mummy takmo ajar bidang jyouhou...nak masuk bidang maths...so kene tahu jugak kriteria ipta tuh...dorang terima ker kalau org yg bralih bidang utk jadi pensyarah...mcm usm tak le rasa nya...uni lain tak cek lagi...kalau nak keje company jadi engineer software ke ...bole la sambung aje master dlm bidang jyouhou jugak,utk mantapkan lagi resume...kalau nak try mintak keje kat aaj ke...jad ke...or institusi yg ader kaitan ngan jepon baik amek bidang linguistik untuk jadik sensei bahasa jepon yang lebih bagus...panjang nak kene pikir...humm...mummy masih lagi tgk timbang2 lagi bab kerjaya nih...takmo pisang berbuah dua kali...any opinion?
hari ini buka-buka forum susuibu.com and read about baby n air masak....byk pendapat tentang hal ni...masa fareehah kat mesia dulu kadang-kadang mak n mak mertua ada juga cuba bagi air masak...mak saya memang kata tak yah bg air masak tp since fareehah menyusu every one hour and pastu dier muntah balik,mak saya soh try bagi...my mil kadang2 tanya juga tak bagi ker..sbb katanya nak bagi lidah bersih...tp saya tak bagi ler...masa tu tak tau pon tak le bagi baby air masak..kdg2 tuh surrender la bg air masak kat fareehah...tp dalam hati kata tak yah kut...so bila balik umah sendiri tak bagi pon...fareehah pon memang budak bijak dier akan reject liquid selain air susu mak dia....hehe..masuk mulut,dier raser lain dier luah nmeronta-ronta n nangis selagi tak dapat susu mama dia...sampai sekarang pon camtu..kadang2 dier curious je muka die tgk mama minum air dalam mug...pastu biler sua kat mulut dier...dier nganga la macam nak teetees die..tp biler rase air jer dier luahkan balik...sampai skrang fareehah tak minum air masak...except biler dier muka curious tuh mama bg raser sket2 tp pastu mama gelak sebab dier tak suka...makan solid dah ok...macam2 makan...nasi,ikan ayam,sayur,buah..tp still tak nak minum selain susu mama...even susu mama pon kene natural nipple...botol,sudu,cawan,syringe...sume tak mo...nak yg original saja ye...!bagus2...arap2 dapat la breastfeed sampai fareehah 2 tahun...even as mummy ketuk keyboard..dier ader kat sebelah mummy sambil wat muka curious...she is one very curious baby...even most people who met her say so...
awatla mummy raser makin susah nak potong kuku si comel fareehah nih...time tido pon dier asek terjaga je bile kene nail clipper kat jari...pastu dier tepis2 la nail clipper tuh..hummmm..time berjaga laaagi la...lagi dier tarik2 tangan dier...cari strategy lain plak jap...hummm
bout last two weeks madihah text me asking me if i am willing to host a muslimat's majlis ilmu for balai ncl...so i said sure...n she asked if i can prepared something for the day...n i said sure...jishin mangmang je ...then baru ingat nak tanya bape org selalunyer dtg...n she said about 15...erkkk...tp okla kot...its been long since i cooked for that amount of people....the last time was when i was 2 months pregnant..during raya...about 40 pople came back then...hmmm...kitorang memang suke ajak orang dtg makan2 kat umah...tp tak kesempatan lg kat sini...
so, i was thinking what should i cook?something not too heavy...since majlis will start at 2.30...end bout 4 pm...but not too light...apo aaa...mummy memang ler tak reti masakan tradisional nih...so i think i will make simple n easy to prepare food..maybe pasta n some dessert...not spagetti...pasta yg pendek2 tuh kot...but gonna make it a little bit malaysian style...sikit pedas...ii kana...then make a choc cake kot...for beverages,some fruit juice n hot tea kot...
agak2 ok tak..okla kan...kan...kinco gak first time ajak org mai nih...any other idea?
Thursday,January 24th 2008...
Journey started with boarding the no12 bus to the monument.baby was constantly in the sling n i have a backpack on my shoulders n hubby a bigger backpack with the wonderful new camera...hehe...got off the bus...n down to the metro...to the newcastle airport.baby slept all the way to the airport after her "teetees"...checked-in with easyJet...n waited in the departure lounge...baby woke up n played a while with her...got on the plane n baby behaved really well.when the plane took off she had her teetees n drift off to sleep again!flight took only 45 minutes...landed safely at stansted airport...n walked to coach bay to go to london city on easyBus...which is not a bus...but a minibus/van...5pounds only!cheap!!!baby slept again all the way to london...n we arrived at victoria station after 6...bought some snacks from sainsbury,n headed to the easyHotel 10 minutes walking from victoria station....baby was very full of energy when we got to the hotel....the room was so small,yet quite stylish...i really liked the bathroom...small n compact...could i have one for daughter's room?hehe...hubby got out again to get us some dinner,found a halal curry shop nearby...n that were what we ate for two days in a row...whatever as long it is cheap n halal...n tastes quite good too!played with baby some more till she was sleepy...n off we were on the bed...zzzzzzzz....
Friday,January 25th 2008...
Spend the whole day on the hop on hop off bus...the popular red bus!very convenient since can easily breastfeed baby whilst enjoying the sight n listening to the commentary...luckily we went to london during winter because they have 48hours offer tickets,for 24hours price!!plus we got 2 pounds off each ticket for buying them online...original price was 19.50,n we got it for 17.50...child below 5 is FREE!before that we walked to the buckingham palace n took some pictures...the queen was nowhere to be seen...hummm...so we only took the picture of the guard,which we first thought was a robot!hehe...we hopped off at trafalgar square where a lot of pigeons lepak....there was the national art gallery...free admission yet we did not go in...not much of art appreciators.....,next...tower of london which is not so tall,n quite nice looking castle and tower bridge,which people always get confused with london bridge...the london bridge looks like any other bridge...the tower bridge is the one on most postcards...did not hopped off at london dungeon (scary...n idon't like scary places..) ,st paul cathedral,westminster abbey,big ben n parliament square...just took the pictures from the bus...then stayed on the bus n enjoy the day for another round before retiring to the hotel.
Saturday,January 26th 2008...
Woke up late..had some breakfast...n got on the red bus again..this time following the yellow line...which have live commentary...n very enlightening...i knew from the commentary where prince charles live now n saw his guards marching to n fro his gate...where the canterburry founder live,one of the oldest cafe in london was royal cafe...the london big fire was on the year 1616...( if i heard correctly) there is a garden named key garden...which to enter the garden you have to use a key...n to get a key you must have a property near the garden..n that sherlock holmes house was on 221 baker street ( but of course it was fictional )...what else...ouh n madam tussaud is not the person who made all the wax dolls...she inherited them from her employer (she was a maid) n soon became a collector...interesting ehhh...then we hopped off at haymarket n bough fridge magnets for ourselves,n hopped on the blue line red bus...blue line bus go to royal albert hall,where we hopped off...we wanted to see the kesington palace...but too lazy to walk..n the baby was cranky...we hopped on back n just ride the bus...it goes through a few museum...n harrods...took harrods picture from the bus only...since not interested to shop there.hop off to change to red line again to go to madame tussaud wax museum...that place was packed with people...but able to snapped few pictures..yey!then got back to the hotel n rest.
Sunday,January 27th 2008...
Checked out from hotel, n went to oxford street via tube...went into nikeshop,babygap,mamasnpapas nursery...but bought nothing...just bought london tshirts for fareehah,fikri n syakirin...some pen for bang min's children...ouh..they have beardpapa n uniqlo here too!then before 2pm went back to victoria station to have lunch...at almost 3 went back to the bus stop .... easyBus-->easyJet-->metro-->bus no12-->HOME!!!!
will uplod the pics to the fotopages when i've got the chance.
gigi dah tumbuh dua batang...hehehe...
ouh...i've got my early birthday present!yey!!!tenkiu my hubby...muah..muah..! suke sangat!!
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